Internetpornos und Cybersex haben für Liebe, Beziehungen und Partnerschaften erhebliche Folgen.Die Paar- und Sexualtherapeutin Heike Melzer untersucht die Folgen des digital beschleunigten Sex im 21. Jahrhundert.
Stuttgart - Internetpornos und Cybersex haben für Liebe, Beziehungen und Partnerschaften erhebliche Folgen. Im Interview erklärt die Paar- und Sexualtherapeutin Heike Melzer was der digital beschleunigte Sex im 21. Jahrhundert mit den Menschen macht.
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